Free templates & guides
Printable templates and short, practical guides for consenting adults who structure their relationship deliberately. Free, no sign-up, and written by the people who make Collar & Key.
Templates and worksheets
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Free printable
BDSM contract template
A fill-in D/s agreement in two parts: your dynamic's ground rules, then the contract itself, from rules and tasks to the Dominant's commitments.
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Free printable
D/s check-in questions and worksheet
Thirty questions for a weekly or monthly check-in, grouped by topic, with a worksheet you each fill in.
Short reads
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Guide
How to write a BDSM contract you'll actually keep
The negotiation before it, what belongs in it, and the mistakes that make contracts quietly stop working.
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Guide
How to run a D/s check-in
Why check-ins matter, how often to hold them, and how to turn a talk into decisions that stick.
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Guide
Hard limits and soft limits, explained
What each means, how to rate and compare a limits list together, and how limits change over time.
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Guide
Safewords and signals: a practical guide
The traffic-light system, non-verbal signals, safeword ideas, and what should happen after one is used.
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